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The through-line between all my clients is usually a shared, deep rooted story: Your worth and deservedness are directly tied to productivity, achievements, performance, and showing others that you are “good.” (Good girl programming that is so suffocating). ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I get it, because my own tendency towards punishing, performance-based religion in my early 20’s and stereotypical “good vibes only” self-help was rooted in the exact same lack of self worth and shame programming. Look good, be good, act good--- and shove down any part of yourself that is "unworthy" of good. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ My life took on the stance of earning the goodness, but never being able to really receive it open heartedly. 💛 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When we live like this we are: 🌟Not accepting pleasure, joy or gifts with grace because we’re so used to “working for it.” 🌟Intaking more information through podcasts and books than we have time to implement. 🌟Suffering needlessly because we have a need to prove that we “deserve” success. 🌟Feeling like a fraud/fake-- afraid we aren’t enough. 🌟Over-giving. 🌟Feeling guilty when work/joy/pleasure came easy. 🌟Doing IT ALL by ourselves, only to be tired, exhausted, and burnt out. 🌟Unable to rest without anxiety, fear or worry. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The truth is: when we embody the truth of who we are (our True Essence) we can trust in the worth and deservedness we are born with. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ That means the more we step into our true worth and reprogram our brain, we trust the goodness that comes our way and can enjoy it freely. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Start by reflecting, when feelings of inferiority, insignificance or "not enough" come up, ask: IS THIS STORY TRUE, OR IS IT MY PROGRAMMING?💫 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Your Authentic self, the magic within you, is deserving of all good things. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ There is nothing you must do to earn it. No one you need to prove it to. Allow yourself to receive and trust the goodness. Tag a friend who would benefit from this reminder. 💋 #IAMMYOWNRESPONSIBILITY
“All the "not readies," all the "I need time," are understandable, but only for a short while. The truth is that there is never a "completely ready," there is never a really "right time." As with any descent to the unconscious, there comes a time when one simply hopes for the best, pinches one's nose, and jumps into the abyss. If this were not so, we would not have needed to create the words heroine, hero, or courage.” ― Clarissa Pinkola Estés We get so caught up trying to make the “right” choices, waiting for the “right” time, praying for signs. Yes, timing is important. Signs are real. The highest and best choice is the one I want to choose. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ AND Sometimes we wait, and wait, and wait, for everything to be perfect, to make logical sense, for others to “get it,” before we take the steps we know we are supposed to. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The brave steps in the direction of your highest self wouldn’t be brave if you knew all the answers already. The hero doesn’t go on an adventure knowing what dragons she will slay. 🐉 She simply grabs her bag, says her prayers and listens to the intuition nudging her along. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ One breadcrumb at a time. Let us not fool ourselves by thinking the path has to be clear and mapped out before we start on the adventure. One step at a time. One day at a time. One knowing at a time. 🌟🌕One breadcrumb at a time. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Saying CHEERS to the intake of women who bravely said yes to themselves this summer in Awaken Her Soul. Let’s slay some dragons and go on this adventure! (Next intake is in October, DM me to get on the waitlist). ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #IAMMYOWNRESPONSIBILITY #heroine #womenwhorunwithwolves #fullmoon
Summertime bringing me deep joy in the midst, surrender and softening. I’m not becoming who I thought I was. And I’m so glad. ☀️🌿🍯 #allowing #wholeness #iammyownresponsibility
heal, v. , to become well or healthy again. 🌿 — The Way Home Retreat is here! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ What might a healthy spirituality look like - one that celebrates, honors and includes all of who you are? Light and shadow. Mystery and flesh. Hope and fear.⚖️⛪️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It’s time for us as a collective of women, to reclaim our spirituality. To come together to witness and heal the wounds caused by religious ignorance, patriarchal theology and exclusion. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ @hillaryliannamcbride @bewithcards and I are hosting a 5-day healing retreat for January 2020 in Hawaii to help cis and trans women to find healing and hope after spiritual wounding and trauma.🏝🌿🥰 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We believe a healthy and vibrant spiritual life is your birthright - a connection with the divine that nurtures, guides and continually transforms you. All of us deserve to feel loved and safe in a spiritual community. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Let’s create that reality with one another. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We look forward to gathering with you. (Seats are limited. Click the link in my bio for more information). 💛 #spiritualhealing #faithdeconstruction #wholeness
When you're connected to your True Essence, you’ll radiate from an inner knowing, a grounded sense of worth. This isn’t an arrogant confidence, but an unapologetic remembering of who you really are. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ➡️This is where life gets exciting. 🔥 Because you already know how to achieve your goals, work hard, play the game and get what you want. But when you’re liberated from looking outside yourself for approval, hustling for wholeness or earning golden stars for doing it "right” you develop a capacity to create, lead and play like never before. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ And I know... Living this way is simple here on Instagram in a cute quote, but it doesn’t always feel this easy and certainly not cute. It’s a practice, it takes inner-work and reverence for yourself. Over and over. So please be kind to yourself. You will wobble. You’ll forget. But you can always come back. And my love, I know you will. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #iammyownrrsponsibility
“If you have yet to be called an incorrigable, defiant woman, don't worry, there is still time” ― Clarissa Pinkola Estés ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ From one “good girl” with a rebel spirit to another, couple your rebellion with curiosity and love and you’ll get liberation. 🌿☀️⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Love you big. 💋 PS- if you’re ready for freedom that comes from the inside out, DM me. There are a few seats left in my summer intake of Awaken Her Soul, where you can explore these shadowy and rebellious sides of you, and finally make peace with your fullness. #iammyownresponsibility ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I don’t believe in “fuck the haters.” What I do believe in is honoring yourself fully, with care for all. 🌿 This does not mean care-taking, over-explaining, or being sorry for your wholeness. It does not mean playing small or hiding your truth. But it does mean treating others with kindness and holding them in highest regard as you set boundaries, embody your fullness and live with the freedom you deserve to. 💥Your freedom, your healing, your joy, your opinions, your boundaries WILL trigger people. They are not haters, they are humans confronted with their own internal “stuff.” The sooner you let go of needing them to feel different before you embody your truth, the sooner you will find the inner peace of just BEING who the fuck you are. No need to fuck the haters, unless of course you want to. 🍑😏💋 #iammyownresponsibility
I used to wait. Wait for permission. Wait for the nod of acceptance. Wait until I was enough according to someone else’s arbitrary enough-ness scale. I waited for joy. Waited for pleasure. Waited to let myself sink, fall and savor life. Trusting Goodness was too vulnerable. What if I started liking what I tasted only to have it taken away? What if I finally decided to show up for life, and I wasn’t enough after all? But what I’ve found is that life was always waiting for me. Ready to kiss me with wet lips on the forehead. Ready to hand me the delicious strawberry cake and watch me enjoy it. 🍰 💛 It was me who wasn’t ready to be enough. (I’m done waiting). #iammyownresponsibility
For the majority of my life, “GOOD VIBES ONLY” was my motto. I thought that my goodness was how I could manifest my dream life. I stayed away from sex, alcohol, avoided my own desires and anything I’d deemed as “sinful or unconscious.” But the truth was, I was fragile. I didn’t know my worth. There was little depth to my goodness. I always felt like an easter egg bunny that was hollow on the inside. My happiness mask was always one warm day away from melting away and leaving me in a messy shame spiral.➰ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ As outwardly happy as I seemed, I was actually carrying the weight of years of abuse I’d never faced, ways I felt unlovable, and the shame of the “shadow” sides of myself I thought were wrong. And as it is with so many things; what we resist persists. There is no amount of self-help, celery juice or good vibes that will shift this unconscious programming. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ➡️There is nothing wrong with focusing on the positive, being grateful and developing healthy habits. It’s important as we thrive, but it will not make you authentically you. ✨ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The woman of your dreams is found in letting go of who you think she “should” be and *fully expressing* the True You under all the programming. Authenticity can’t be constructed outwardly, only found internally. And I promise, if you sit with the truth of who you are long enough, you’ll fall in love with all you find. (You are good). ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ This is the work I do in Awaken Her Soul, my signature 14 week program. If it interests you, DM me. Let’s hop on a call next week and see if it’s a good fit to support you this summer. 💛 #iammyownresponsibility #humanaf #wholeness
Feeling stuck? Here are 3 things that will make an IMMEDIATE shift in your state.💋 1- Stop pretending. Stop pretending you don’t know what you want. Stop pretending the life you desire is for someone else, someone prettier/smarter/with more money/etc. 2- Allow yourself to want what you want. Feel the vulnerability of your desire. Don’t mistake that ping of frustration--that longing on your heart for "more" as selfish or insignificant. Want what you want. End of story. 3- If you’re living in a life much too small for you, get a bigger container. Find a coach or mentor to hold the space of possibility for you, who can support you through the process and, most importantly, who has capacity for *all of you,* your power, and is willing to hold you in your expansion. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ You, my love, are allowed to want more. Stop pretending, start claiming your desires and drink of the life you want deeply. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ This is the work I support women through in Awaken Her Soul, my signature 14 week mentorship program, to reprogram your brain, claim your worth and live into your fullest potential. It’s for those who have seen a glimpse of what’s possible, and are ready to more. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If you're ready for more than surviving, and want to embody more freedom, confidence, joy and expansion, DM me and let's see if this is the right fit for you.💛⭐️👑 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #iammyownresponsibility
Proving has such a forceful, graspy energy. It masks itself as healthy hustle, and “show up for your dreams” and “believe in yourself” entrepreneur bullshit. I bought in big time. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ☑️Working 80 hour weeks. ☑️Wanting to prove people from my past wrong with my success. ☑️Saying yes to too many projects, Skype dates, coffee dates, guest blog posts, free gigs, etc, to show how kind, capable and creative I was. ☑️I even hustled in my marriage to show I was a worthy wife, able to “do it all” and fulfill the traditional role while still being ambitious. 🙃 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But proving energy wears on you. It wears on your self esteem. On your relationships. On your adrenals. On your creativity. On your wholeness. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It wore on me. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I had heard about flow, magnetism and alignment but honestly, I thought it was bullshit, airy-fairy, new age nonsense. (HARD eye-roll from this blue collar Virgo over-achiever). 🙄🧚🏻‍♀️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Live from ALREADY ENOUGH and “manifest” your dream life? LOL okay. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But in the few years since leaning into this idea I’ve realized it’s not a magical state to achieve where you never work or show up with excellence, it’s a sense of embodying your core identity. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When you KNOW you are worthy on a core level (reprogram your limiting stories) you live from the freedom of enough and develop the inner capacity to receive goodness. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⭐️It’s not magic, it’s wholeness.⭐️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It’s realizing who you really are. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ No need to prove, grasp or strive. You just have to BE IT. Be you, beyond the bullshit programming. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When you realize who you really are, you will still be required to show up with excellence. But the energy of forcefulness, anxiety, graspyness and insecurity will dissipate. Instead it will be replaced with a calm peace, grounded in your worth, a deep knowing. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ This is the freedom is “already enough.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #IAMMYOWNRESPONSIBILITY
When you choose to play small, you are not just squashing your magic, you’re perpetuating the FALSE notion that it is your responsibility to manage the emotions and experience of others. You’re choosing their comfort over your freedom. You’re buying into the belief that your whole self is not welcome, lovable or worthy of belonging. ⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀ And I don’t know about you but I’m so done with those narratives.👋🏼 ⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀ If you want to become the hero of your own story, you’ve got to step up and decide all of you is welcome to the party. (Cuz no one can do it for you). ⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀ Done are the days of dimming your light to make others feel safe. Done are the days of watering down your potency because some people prefer a different flavor. Done are the days of hiding your magic, your essence, your true feelings and swallowing your words. ⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀ All of you is welcome. All of you is needed. All of you is worthy. ⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀ ☀️It's time to show up.☀️ PC @eliseabigailphoto #iammyownresponsibility

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