What if the stuff that’s weighing you down isn’t yours to carry?
The burden of other people’s dramas and opinions are not yours. Meeting other people’s needs may just have to come second to meeting your own. People-pleasing, taming your shine, and hiding your opinions only holds you down. Let go of people-pleasing. Let go of the need to put others first. Let go of the fear of being seen as selfish or demanding.
It’s time to own your energies, stand in your power, and come alive to the real you. (Opinions and all).
Most people are afraid to set boundaries because they are scary, they seem confrontational, and maybe even a little selfish. I know the feeling because I used to let other people walk on me; I hid my opinions, bent over backwards to please family, friends, and bosses, and walked on eggshells just to keep the peace.
And you know what? I was miserable. All my striving to keep the peace and hiding left me feeling more anxious and ragged than anything!
If you’ve ever felt resentful, unheard, frustrated, or completely run dry from keeping the peace, managing other people’s drama, or from putting others first, it’s time to know where you begin.
If you’re reading and are nodding yes to all of it, I created an exclusive live online workshop just for you. “Where I Begin: Boundaries for Women Who Want to Own Their Life and Live From Love.” (Just in time for the election and the holidays- thank me later).
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Where I Begin is an intimate workshop where you will learn to overcome people-pleasing, tools to have courageous conversations, and create boundaries that ultimately support thriving relationships, inner peace, and the life of love you really long for.
You are allowed to say no. You are allowed to live in a way that honors your values. You are meant to reach your highest potential and truly come alive!